I do become uncomfortable when I hear people using terms like “winning” and “victory” . Those are “power over” terms of the old way, the way society has been set up. What I’m seeing is that we need a new way, the way of “power with”. What kind of language can we use to describe what we’re doing, that does not fall into the trap of the old paradigm?
It looks to me that if we are to clean up our act, we must look at ways to share power with others.